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Have you thought about finally starting that business now that your kids are older? Do you ever stay awake wondering how to mesh your passions into purposeful work? Do you have big, ambitious goals, but feel overwhelmed or even unqualified to pursue them? Do you desire simplicity and a life without hurry, but you still want to pursue your goals? With inflation skyrocketing, you may be feeling the need to make some extra money to take the pressure off at home or just to have fun money again, and you’re also ready to make an impact outside your home bubble. Turning your knowledge into an online business sounds like a great side hustle to consider. But... you don’t want to sacrifice your family time, and you have no idea where to start! It sounds simple enough, but you’re asking yourself if you’re good enough, if you know enough, if people will want what you have to offer, and if you have what it takes to make something like this work for you in the season you’re in. Well, in this podcast, I will help you clarify your goals and teach you how to use your interests to define your purpose. I’ll help you create systems so you can find the time you need to take action. You’ll learn how to create an atmosphere of simplicity and a life without hurry by setting boundaries, decluttering your schedule and mind, and ditching the distractions so you can finally be present right where you are while growing a successful online business. I have no doubt that you can both make an impact and money all while enjoying what you do. My ultimate mission is to help you step into the fire of refinement so God can mold and shape you into a woman ready to tackle the vision He placed in your heart. If you’re ready to say yes to what’s next and get unstuck, you’re in the right place. Hey, I’m Gabe. A wife, mom, writer, runner, and Jesus lover! For years I put my dreams on the shelf thinking I had to sacrifice my own desires for motherhood. I thought I needed to be everything to everyone, but in the process I lost myself. I felt so scattered because I had way too many things on my plate, and I made all the excuses! What I realize now, after hitting a massive goal of qualifying for the Boston Marathon, is that my kids need me to pursue my own goals so I can be their best example. They need to see me win - and yours do too! As a running enthusiast, I believe life is one massive marathon, so if you’re ready to turn your passion and purpose into impact and income all for the glory of God, then lace up those running shoes, pop in your ear buds, and let’s do this thing! Step into the fire with me because I know you will come out stronger. Topics: simple goal planning, setting goals you’ll take action on, online business strategy, simplified business organization, action taking that works Learn - https://redhotmindset.com Grow: https://redhotmindset.newzenler.com/f/rhm-newsletter Community: https://redhotmindset.com/rha
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Hey Winner,
Are you tired of feeling like your business success depends on chasing trends, dancing for the algorithm, or being constantly “on”? If you’re burned out by social media? OR just wondering if there’s a better way? This episode is your wake-up call.
In Episode 1 of Your Anti-Social Advantage, we’re breaking down the exhaustion of traditional online marketing and introducing a fresh, values-aligned approach to growing your business without the overwhelm. It’s simple. It’s sustainable. And, yes, it honors your faith and your family.
🎧 This is the episode I wish someone had handed me when I was ready to quit the hustle and start building differently.
Rooting for you ~ Gabe
New to the podcast? Start here:
https://redhotmindset.com/podcast-start/
LISTEN TO HEAR:
- Why “visibility” isn’t the same as “impact”
- The warning signs of social media burnout—and how to respond
- What Anti-Social Marketing is (and why it’s not about hiding)
- My personal pivot story—stepping off the social treadmill for good
- A sneak peek at the 10-episode journey ahead
👉 Ready to ditch the hustle and do business differently?
Join me for this powerful series, and I’ll show you how to generate warm, ready-to-buy leads—without being glued to your phone.
🎯 Want to go deeper?
Start building a marketing system that works while you rest inside Your Anti-Social Advantage, a step-by-step program designed to help faith-driven entrepreneurs grow their business off social media and on purpose: https://redhotmindset.com/arise/
CONNECT WITH ME:
➡️ Website: https://redhotmindset.com/
➡️ Join the Red Hot Accountability Club: https://redhotmindset.com/rha/
➡️ Free mini course: Craft Your Marketing Strategy Without Social Media: https://redhotmindset.com/marketing/
➡️ Free workshop: 3 pillars to setting and crushing goals in a stress-less, no hustle way https://redhotmindset.com/goals/

Tuesday Sep 30, 2025
Tuesday Sep 30, 2025
Hey Winner,
If writing sales copy makes you feel awkward or pushy, this episode is for you. Jason Benfer shares how 100 weeks of professional sales coaching helped him shift his mindset and develop a clear, service-driven framework for messaging that actually works. We’re talking simple strategies to clarify your offer, connect with your audience, and inspire action—without the ick.
Rooting for you ~ Gabe
New to the podcast? Start here: https://redhotmindset.com/podcast-start/
LISTEN TO HEAR:
- How 100 weeks of professional sales coaching helped Jason reframe selling as an act of service — not self-promotion.
- A simple framework to clarify your message: Hook Attention, Build Trust, Inspire Action — and how to apply it without sounding pushy.
- Why smart, well-meaning people often sabotage their own messaging — and the patterns to avoid if you want to connect instead of confuse.
LINKS MENTIONED IN EPISODE:
📌 Website: https://www.rewritemysite.com/gabe
📌 Connect with Jason on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jasonbenfer/
CONNECT WITH ME:
➡️ Website: https://redhotmindset.com/
➡️ Join the Red Hot Accountability Club: https://redhotmindset.com/rha/
➡️ Free mini course: Craft Your Marketing Strategy Without Social Media: https://redhotmindset.com/marketing/
➡️ Free workshop: 3 pillars to setting and crushing goals in a stress-less, no hustle way https://redhotmindset.com/goals/

Tuesday Sep 23, 2025
Ep 320 | The Power of Selling Differently in a Noisy Market with Andee Hart
Tuesday Sep 23, 2025
Tuesday Sep 23, 2025
Hey Winner,
What if selling didn’t have to feel salesy? In this episode, I’m joined by Andee Hart—faith-filled entrepreneur, sales strategist, and founder of Hart Design Co.—to talk about how we can sell with authenticity, confidence, and grace in a saturated market.
Andee shares her journey from corporate sales to running a successful candle business and launching the She Sells Differently brand, along with practical ways to overcome sales anxiety and sell with integrity. If you’ve ever felt like sales just isn't your thing, this conversation will inspire you to rethink what it means to serve through selling—God’s way.
Rooting for you ~ Gabe
New to the podcast? Start here: https://redhotmindset.com/podcast-start/
LISTEN TO HEAR:
- What it means to sell differently with faith, confidence, and authenticity
- Practical strategies to overcome sales anxiety without compromising your values
- How Andee integrates her faith into business and stands out in a noisy market
LINKS MENTIONED IN EPISODE:
- Andee's website: https://andeehart.com/
- The Ultimate List of Sales Tools (free resource): https://go.andeehart.com/gabecox
- Podcast: She Sells Differently https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/she-sells-differently-authentic-selling-business-growth/id1731402504
CONNECT WITH ME:
➡️ Website: https://redhotmindset.com/
➡️ Join the Red Hot Accountability Club: https://redhotmindset.com/rha/
➡️ Free mini course: Craft Your Marketing Strategy Without Social Media: https://redhotmindset.com/marketing/
➡️ Free workshop: 3 pillars to setting and crushing goals in a stress-less, no hustle way https://redhotmindset.com/goals/

Tuesday Sep 16, 2025
Tuesday Sep 16, 2025
Hey Winner,
Struggling to turn free calls into paying clients? You’re not alone. In this session, John Meese—founder of the SOLD OUT Coach Club and author of Serve to Sell—shares how to ditch pushy sales tactics and use Serve Calls instead. It’s a step-by-step method to turn free coaching conversations into premium program sales—authentically and effectively.
Rooting for you ~ Gabe
New to the podcast? Start here: https://redhotmindset.com/podcast-start/
LISTEN TO HEAR HOW TO:
- Replace sales calls with trust-building Serve Calls that convert.
- Use market research conversations to enroll clients with ease.
- Overcome objections and close high-ticket sales—no socials required.
LINKS MENTIONED IN EPISODE:
📌 Website: https://www.sellyoursmarts.co/
CONNECT WITH ME:
➡️ Website: https://redhotmindset.com/
➡️ Join the Red Hot Accountability Club: https://redhotmindset.com/rha/
➡️ Free mini course: Craft Your Marketing Strategy Without Social Media: https://redhotmindset.com/marketing/
➡️ Free workshop: 3 pillars to setting and crushing goals in a stress-less, no hustle way https://redhotmindset.com/goals/

Tuesday Sep 09, 2025
Tuesday Sep 09, 2025
Hey Winner,
If social media feels more like a burden than a blessing, this talk is for you. I’m talking with Tara Wagner, Accredited Small Business Consultant®, about whether you really need social media, how to use it like a business card (not a full-time job), and what she learned during a sabbatical from it all. It’s a refreshing take on marketing without the hustle!
Rooting for you ~ Gabe
New to the podcast? Start here: https://redhotmindset.com/podcast-start/
LISTEN TO HEAR:
- Current marketing trends that make it hard to get away from social
- How to determine if your biz needs it and what is needed
- Minimal viable marketing strategies + "business card" profiles
- What taking a sabbatical did to Tara's biz
LINKS MENTIONED IN EPISODE:
📌 Website: https://xotara.us/
📌 Ready to go deeper? Join me inside Your Anti-Social Advantage: redhotmindset.com/arise/
CONNECT WITH ME:
➡️ Website: https://redhotmindset.com/
➡️ Join the Red Hot Accountability Club: https://redhotmindset.com/rha/
➡️ Free mini course: Craft Your Marketing Strategy Without Social Media: https://redhotmindset.com/marketing/
➡️ Free workshop: 3 pillars to setting and crushing goals in a stress-less, no hustle way https://redhotmindset.com/goals/

Tuesday Sep 02, 2025
Ep 317 | 3 Key Pillars for Growing a Business Without Social Media
Tuesday Sep 02, 2025
Tuesday Sep 02, 2025
Hey Winner,
What if I told you that you don’t need social media to grow a thriving, faith-driven business? In this episode, I’m sharing the three key pillars that helped me grow my podcast by 400% and my email list from 350 to 3,500—after stepping away from social
I’ll walk you through how to build trust with long-form content, nurture real relationships through email, and borrow other people’s audiences through intentional collaboration. If you’re craving simplicity, strategy, and spiritual alignment in your business, this one’s for you.
Rooting for you ~ Gabe
New to the podcast? Start here: https://redhotmindset.com/podcast-start/
LINKS MENTIONED IN EPISODE:
📌 Ready to go deeper? Join me inside Your Anti-Social Advantage: redhotmindset.com/arise/
📌 Ad Testing Cheat Codes: https://quayjo.thrivecart.com/ad-testing-cheat-code-offer/?coupon=NOSOCIAL
CONNECT WITH GABE:
➡️ Website: https://redhotmindset.com/
➡️ Join the Red Hot Accountability Club: https://redhotmindset.com/rha/
➡️ Free mini course: Craft Your Marketing Strategy Without Social Media: https://redhotmindset.com/marketing/
➡️ Free workshop: 3 pillars to setting and crushing goals in a stress-less, no hustle way https://redhotmindset.com/goals/

Tuesday Aug 26, 2025
Tuesday Aug 26, 2025
Hey Winner,
If you haven’t noticed already, the online space is shifting big time, and relying heavily on social media for marketing could actually be hurting your business.
In today’s episode, visibility strategist and mompreneur, Andria Singletary, shares why shifting your marketing focus off social media can attract higher-quality leads, boost conversions, and free up your time for what truly matters—your family and faith.
Rooting for you ~ Gabe
New to the podcast? Start here: https://redhotmindset.com/podcast-start/
LISTEN TO HEAR:
- Why focusing on your own expertise can disconnect you from your audience.
- How a customer-centric narrative builds trust.
- A proven 7-step method to clarify your message and attract sales.
LINKS MENTIONED IN EPISODE:
📌 Website: https:/www.mamaturnedmompreneur.com/
📌 Ready to go deeper? Join me inside Your Anti-Social Advantage: redhotmindset.com/arise/
CONNECT WITH ME:
➡️ Website: https://redhotmindset.com/
➡️ Join the Red Hot Accountability Club: https://redhotmindset.com/rha/
➡️ Free mini course: Craft Your Marketing Strategy Without Social Media: https://redhotmindset.com/marketing/
➡️ Free workshop: 3 pillars to setting and crushing goals in a stress-less, no hustle way https://redhotmindset.com/goals/

Tuesday Aug 19, 2025
Ep 315 | You Don’t Need More Knowledge to Move Forward
Tuesday Aug 19, 2025
Tuesday Aug 19, 2025
Hey Winner,
Are you stuck in learning mode—constantly preparing, but never taking that first step?
In this episode, we’re busting the myth that more knowledge equals more progress. The truth? Clarity comes from action, not over-preparation.
If you’ve been waiting to feel ready before pursuing that God-given goal, this is your reminder: you don’t need more information—you need to move forward in faith. God isn’t asking for perfection—He’s asking for progress rooted in trust.
Rooting for you ~ Gabe
New to the podcast? Start here: https://redhotmindset.com/podcast-start/
LISTEN TO HEAR:
- Why confidence comes through doing, not just studying
- How obedience often comes before understanding
- Simple ways to take a faith-filled step today—even if it’s imperfect
LINKS MENTIONED IN EPISODE:
📌 LAT CPA Firm: https://latcpafirm.com/
📌 Automate to Dominate: https://calendly.com/ltogba/onboarding?month=2025-07
CONNECT WITH ME:
➡️ Website: https://redhotmindset.com/
➡️ Join the Red Hot Accountability Club: https://redhotmindset.com/rha/
➡️ Free mini course: Craft Your Marketing Strategy Without Social Media: https://redhotmindset.com/marketing/
➡️ Free workshop: 3 pillars to setting and crushing goals in a stress-less, no hustle way https://redhotmindset.com/goals/

Tuesday Aug 12, 2025
Tuesday Aug 12, 2025
Hey Winner,
Ready to run Meta ads but not sure where to start? In this episode, Kwadwo (QUĀY.jo) from The Art of Online Business shares how to know when your business is ready, what to do first, and how to run ads without wasting money. You’ll learn the biggest mistakes to avoid, budget-friendly strategies that work, and how to align your ad strategy with your purpose.
Rooting for you ~ Gabe
New to the podcast? Start here: https://redhotmindset.com/podcast-start/
LISTEN TO HEAR:
- Signs your business should start using Meta ads and when it makes sense to have an ads manager vs you doing your own ads.
- The best way to lower Facebook ads lead cost
- The Olympic Gold Medal Testing Framework
LINKS MENTIONED IN EPISODE:
📌 Kwadwo's website: https://theartofonlinebusiness.com
📌 Connect with Kwadwo on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/quayjo
📌 Snag Kwadwo's ad cheat codes for $1: https://quayjo.thrivecart.com/ad-testing-cheat-code-offer/?coupon=NOSOCIAL
📌 Ep 306 | Is Your Business Ready for Facebook Ads and How to Avoid Overspending: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pursuing-goals-gods-way-goal-planning-and-business/id1504519991?i=1000713244040
CONNECT WITH ME:
➡️ Website: https://redhotmindset.com/
➡️ Join the Red Hot Accountability Club: https://redhotmindset.com/rha/
➡️ Free mini course: Craft Your Marketing Strategy Without Social Media: https://redhotmindset.com/marketing/
➡️ Free workshop: 3 pillars to setting and crushing goals in a stress-less, no hustle way https://redhotmindset.com/goals/

Tuesday Aug 05, 2025
Ep 313 | What Growing on Social Media Actually Means
Tuesday Aug 05, 2025
Tuesday Aug 05, 2025
Hey Winner,
I get asked this a lot—what do I actually mean when I say “grow your business without social media”? Does that include Pinterest or YouTube? And how can we market in a way that’s sustainable and faith-filled without the burnout?
In this episode, I’m sharing my personal approach to business growth that doesn’t rely on the hustle of Instagram or Facebook. I’ll break down the difference between fleeting platforms and evergreen ones, and why that shift has brought so much freedom to my life and business. If you’re feeling overwhelmed by online visibility and craving a simpler path, this one’s for you.
Rooting for you ~ Gabe
New to the podcast? Start here: https://redhotmindset.com/podcast-start/
LISTEN TO HEAR:
- Why I stepped away from traditional social media
- What platforms I don’t consider “social” (and why!)
- What evergreen marketing really looks like
- How to build a business that fits your life and honors your faith
LINKS MENTIONED IN EPISODE:
📌 The Kingdompreneur Directory (40% off annual plans for the first year with code GABERHAC: https://directory.kingdompreneurdirectory.com/join?a_aid=gabe&a_bid=34872ceb
CONNECT WITH ME:
➡️ Website: https://redhotmindset.com/
➡️ Join the Red Hot Accountability Club: https://redhotmindset.com/rha/
➡️ Free mini course: Craft Your Marketing Strategy Without Social Media: https://redhotmindset.com/marketing/
➡️ Free workshop: 3 pillars to setting and crushing goals in a stress-less, no hustle way https://redhotmindset.com/goals/